Example 1 · Empathy and teamwork
A teammate misses an important deadline
A teammate has not completed their section of a group assignment due tonight. They tell the group they are dealing with a family issue and need more time.
Question 1
How would you respond to your teammate and the rest of the group?
Question 2
If the deadline cannot be extended, how would you balance support with completing the work fairly?
A weaker approach
I would tell them that everyone has problems and they still need to finish. If they cannot, I would give their work to someone else so the group does not lose marks.
This response acts quickly but makes assumptions, overlooks stakeholders, or gives too little reasoning.
A stronger timed approach
Response 1
I would acknowledge the family issue and speak with the teammate privately to understand what they can realistically complete. With their permission, I would update the group without sharing personal details, clarify the remaining work, and check whether the instructor offers an extension or accommodation. I would help the group agree on a short-term plan rather than blaming the teammate.
Response 2
If the deadline is fixed, I would redistribute only the urgent tasks based on capacity and document each person's contribution. I would give the teammate a manageable role if possible, communicate the plan transparently, and follow up after submission so the same members are not repeatedly carrying extra work without discussion.
Why it is stronger
- ✓Acknowledges the teammate without assuming the family issue is an excuse.
- ✓Protects privacy while still communicating with affected group members.
- ✓Balances immediate delivery with longer-term fairness and follow-up.